The fact is, you and your friends don’t play enough. If you are the exception you’re lucky. All the research concludes that Millennials as children spend dramatically fewer hours in Open-ended Play than previous generations have.
What is Open-ended Play (O-eP)? It’s the fully committed investment of your body and your mind. You are physically active, your senses are engaged and your mind is wide awake, both consciously analyzing and calculating and subconsciously associating and relating.
O-eP is the imaginative collaboration of you and a friend or three or six or ten kids declaring a new world into existence as you take turns defining it and shaping it as you run around and through it.
Not long ago a great span of childhood years were spent architecting and narrating and acting and prototyping and continuously improving these creative worlds.
This dramatic reduction of O-eP in Millennial children’s’ lives to a great extent is the unintended consequence of your parents tremendous love for their children.
Your parents were more eager to be parents than any before, so much so that they added large new responsibilities, even duties, to the parent’s role. Most notably they have become your talent manager, watching carefully for every indication of any special inclination on your part, and they are quick to invest in the lessons or classes or teams where you can develop that skill or interest.
So you are regularly attending practices, or taking lessons, or signing up for extra classes because there is that second interest of yours, with its own schedule.
And quite often a third.
And of course there is school, and homework.
And more homework.
And you need to spend some time with friends, and on Facebook.
And a bunch of you have jobs.
So very few of you have any meaningful time to be bored enough to entertain yourself with old school O-eP.
So what?
Any one of your extracurricular activities is important in helping you develop your talents and abilities, creatively entrepreneurial or otherwise, no doubt.
But if you are doing so many that your life feels like you are trying to stuff 50 pounds into a 40 pound sack then let me share another picture of O-eP and ask yourself where in your life you are cultivating, nurturing, developing the creatively entrepreneurial instincts and feelings expressed in…
…Once upon a time you picked up the stick and it felt just right in your hand, and your action and your thought are in the same moment as you slash the sky with the stick that has become a sword so that means the cloth on the chair is now your cape and you drape it over your shoulder and arm and take the next step forward into a world you narrate through this character’s eyes, negotiating the imaginative realities of others on the playground, recruiting them at times, diverging when necessary, discarding what isn’t needed and adding features when they suit the emerging story.
And when it’s time you know it’s time for the sword to become an eye glass and you put it to that use to scout ahead for the next narrative hook.
All as you run for your life, then wait for your turn, then balance on one foot, then hop on the other, then agree to be the one who dies next time, and then break the stick in half to refresh the game.
Being well practiced and graceful at such play is suggestive of what? Strategic nimbleness? An appetite for tactical Continuous Improvement? Adaptive Leadership through narrative development?
I’m not sure how you teach that. I know how you learn it.
By playing at it.